Over the years, I've most listened to Carter's Violin Concerto, as violin concertos by modern & contemporary composers are a special interest of mine (Nørgard, Rautavaara, M. Lindberg, Knussen, Ruders, Barber, Salonen, etc.). I often find these composers are at their best, & arguably at their most accessible when writing for the violin (starting with Prokofiev), & Carter is no exception,
Otherwise, I've probably most listened to Carter's Night Fantasies for solo piano, which was commissioned by 4 American pianists--Charles Rosen, Paul Jacobs, Ursula Oppens & Gilbert Kalish, who each made a recording of the work. Though I wouldn't say that I return to this piece frequently:
Interestingly, Pierre-Laurent Aimard coupled Carter's Night Fantasies with Ravel's Gaspard de la Nuit on his recording, & he makes it sound like an almost entirely different work from Rosen, who seems more focused on the emotional core of the music,
Carter : Night Fantasies
But I like both interpretations, along with Paul Jacobs' recording.
I've also listened to Carter's Piano Sonata more than his other works:
Carter - Piano sonata - Rosen 1961
& when I'm in the mood, his massive late "Symphonia: "Sum fluxae pretium spei"":
Symphonia: "Sum fluxae pretium spei" - Elliott Carter
& the Variations for Orchestra, which was composed in 1955 for the Louisville Orchestra:
Variations for Orchestra is one of Elliott Carter's more accessible pieces, believe it or not. The work was completed in 1955 as a commission from the Louis...
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