I come from a musical family and, like le Conte, studied piano from an early age, taking all my grades up to Grade VIII. My teacher wanted me to go on and try for my LRAM, but I used to get so nervous before exams that I decided I didn't want to do any more. When I got to secondary school, I started learning viola, my brother played clarinet, my mother sang (she was a contralto, though she sang mostly light classics and musical theatre songs) and my father was a conductor of operettas and musicals. He was the musical director of most of the operatic societies in my area.
My parents used to take me to the opera whenever touring companies like Scottish Opera, English National Opera and Glyndebourne Touring came our way but, though I quite enjoyed going, I wouldn't say I was completely hooked. There were two things that got me hooked though. The first was hearing records of Maria Callas, who somehow "spoke" to me in a way no other singers quite did, and the second was iwhen n my late teens I left home to study at Newcastle-upon-Tyne university. I remember queuing to get into a performance of La Boheme by Glyndebourne Touring Opera. There were no seats left, but I and the three other people I was standing in the queue with decided to share a box, which had quite a restricted view of the stage. It was a traditional production but the cast was believably young (Linda Esther Gray was the Mimi) and the performance moved me so much I started crying, and that was in the first act. Thereafter I tried to see everything I could. The fact that we were restricted to touring companies who would just come for a week or two at a time, meant that I would try to see everything they did, whether it was something unknown, something new or something popular. This way I got to see a massive range of different operas, from twentieth century opera like Henze's Elegy for Young Lovers to popular operas like La Traviata. I would also travel to Sunderland, Leeds or York if I got the chance and it was something that wasn't coming to Newcastle.
When it came to collecting opera recordings, I was led first by Callas. It may seem strange, but most of her recordings had been deleted at that time, so I either ended up listening for the first time by borrowing from the university library or scouring second hand and specialist outlets. In some ways this was a good thing, as I could get to know each opera thoroughly before moving onto the next. Schwarzkopf was also a favourite and she introduced me to the operas of Mozart and Strauss.
During my twenties, opera and opera singers (especially female singers) were my passion. I subscribed to Opera Magazine and would read it avidly from cover to cover. I also read extensively about my favourite subject.
Nowadays I suppose I tend to listen more to non vocal music, partly because opera requires more of a commitment, for me anyway. I prefer to listen to a whole opera (or at least an act at a time, especially if it's Wagner) than just extract odd bits, and that requires total concentration. I listen to more than I watch, though I do still enjoy seeig it live in the opera house. I just wish it wasn't so expensive!